i’m actually sick of people complaining, unless you have a completely valid reason for complaining then stop, because it really irritates me when people complain about something but they’re not doing anything to make it better. for example, everyone on tumblr posting pictures of skinny girls and getting depressed and wishing they looked that thin, unless you are trying your very best to lose weight, tone up and be healthier, then you have no right to complain because you’re not doing anything about it! obviously you can’t just sit on tumblr every night reblogging pictures of skinny girls and wishing you looked like that without doing something, you’re not just going to suddenly wake up one day and look like that life’s not as easy as that funnily enough. people need to realise that you have to try your best to change the things you don’t like to make a difference, and be proactive instead of just complain about things without doing anything about it. people who just sit back, blame others and complain will be in a vicious cycle of unhappiness for a very long time, you need to man up and come to terms with your problems and accept them and take responsibility, so that you can overcome them. “you’re your problem but you’re also your solution”
